TEMPERANCE, Mich. — The Catholic Archdiocese of Detroit says it regrets that a priest officiating at a teen’s funeral questioned whether he would get to heaven after killing himself.
Maison Hullibarger’s father tells the Detroit Free Press that he asked the priest to stop talking during the Dec. 8 funeral Mass. But Jeff Hullibarger says the Rev. Don LaCuesta continued giving a critical sermon at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Temperance.
Hullibarger says some mourners left the church crying.
“We wanted him to celebrate how Maison lived, not how he died,” Maison’s mother, Linda Hullibarger, told the paper. “It was his time to tell everybody what he thought of suicide, (and) we couldn’t believe what he was saying.”
“He was up there condemning our son, pretty much calling him a sinner. He wondered if he had repented enough to make it to heaven. He said ‘suicide’ upwards of six times.”
“There were actually a couple of younger boys who were Maison’s age who left the church sobbing,” Jeff Hullibarger said.
Hullibarger said that at one point he walked to the pulpit and whispered to the priest, “Father, please stop,” but their pastor continued with statements denouncing the way their son’s life ended.
The archdiocese released a statement Thursday saying it’s sorry that an “unbearable situation was made even more difficult.” The archdiocese says LaCuesta will not preach at funerals “for the foreseeable future.”
18-year-old Maison died on Dec. 4. He was an athlete and honors student.
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