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by Ann O’Neill

LAKEWOOD, Colo. — It’s election season here at the golden gateway to the Rockies, and the political talk is all lady parts, all the time.

Day in and day out, a seemingly endless stream of political ads hounds voters with what two men have to say about so-called women’s issues. It’s inescapable; the ads even come up on Google searches and the Words with Friends app. Indeed, it’s such a barrage of rhetoric that one would think abortion, an issue the U.S. Supreme Court decided in 1973, is on the ballot.

Not quite.

Abortion, birth control and “personhood” — another way of saying life begins at conception — are indeed front and center in Colorado’s U.S. Senate race between incumbent Mark Udall, a Democrat, and challenger Cory Gardner, a Republican who gave up his seat in Congress to run.

And, since the abortion debate rarely takes a time out, there’s a ballot measure seeking to change Colorado’s criminal code to allow prosecutors to file homicide charges in cases involving the deaths of pregnant women — and their unborn children.

Intimate topics usually shared only with a gynecologist have become so much a part of this campaign that pundits have dubbed Udall “Mark Uterus.” A spoof “Mark Uterus” Twitter account boasts 324 followers.

Vajayjay politics has some women in Colorado fired up. Others are fed up.

The reaction depends on whether the fight is seen through a baby boomer’s eyes, or a millennial’s. A boomer remembers when abortion was illegal and her contemporaries marched and burned their bras; a millennial isn’t interested in ancient “herstory.”

What so far seems to have eluded both Senate campaigns is that there are other issues of concern to women: Good schools and jobs, equal pay for performing the same work as men, the ability to set a little money aside for the future, decent opportunities for the kids and grandkids. Most want to see the next generation live as well as they do but question whether that’s possible.

Nowhere is that more evident than in suburban Lakewood, a sprawling mashup of gated subdivisions, office parks and working-class ranch houses in the heart of Jefferson County, just west of Denver. There’s prosperity here, with few outwardly visible signs of hard times. One might not find a cutesy-pie village, but the city’s Belmar Center boasts a Whole Foods Market with its own multilevel parking deck.

JeffCo, as it is locally known, has become ground zero for the U.S. Senate. Half a million people live here, including 181,303 active female voters who are of no small significance because in past elections, they always showed up.

The Colorado Senate race is now a dead heat, making JeffCo the biggest swing county in the biggest swing state in the nation. This place could actually decide whether Democrats or Republicans control the Senate.

“The classic logic has always been as goes JeffCo, so goes Colorado and as goes Colorado, so goes the nation,” says Kelly Maher, a 31-year-old political consultant from Denver. She went to high school in Jefferson County, leans to the right, and sparred with “The Daily Show” host Jon Stewart and survived.

Maher invited me to The University Club, a members-only haunt a block or two from the state Capitol in Denver, for some tea and spin. She is convinced that Jefferson County could be The Decider.

“It’s an interesting place to be,” she said between sips.

Perhaps, but I didn’t see hide nor hair of either Senate candidate last week in Lakewood. Battleground, schmattleground. Time to get out there and meet these swing state women for myself.

As I plotted my visit, Udall, with his entourage of Planned Parenthood and other abortion rights supporters, played to his base; he mainly stuck to Boulder and Denver, including an event on Tuesday with Hillary Clinton.

Gardner also tended his base in conservative western Colorado, with the occasional appearance in Denver. But at least Gardner, who favors over-the-counter birth control but opposes abortion, had plans to go to a Jefferson County event.

Udall handily won JeffCo when he last ran in 2008. That year, 73% of the women eligible to vote in Colorado registered, and 69% actually went to the polls. Two years later, JeffCo also went for another Democrat, Mike Bennet, Colorado’s junior senator.

Ah, but is change in the air?

Republicans are hoping to gain traction from what Maher and others see as an “Obama backlash” and a second-term president’s declining popularity. They also hope to capitalize on dissatisfaction with the sluggish economy and jitters over the Ebola virus and a volatile situation in the Mideast.

Indeed, the Republican and unaffiliated female voters I met cited Ebola and ISIS as top among their concerns, while the Democrats talked about the environment and sustainability. The issues of education and the economy crossed party lines.

JeffCo: Colorado in microcosm

In many ways JeffCo is Colorado in microcosm. Its voters are 37% unaffiliated, 32% Republican and 30% Democrat. The county has voted for every U.S. Senate winner since 1992.

The quest to learn what Jefferson County’s women really want began with get-out-the-vote worker Natalie Menten. You want to take the pulse of the suburbs? Go to the dog park, she advised.

There, along with the bulldogs, Labrador retrievers and huskies, I found Mary Lovit, 39, an unaffiliated voter who favors Udall, and Ammorette Trujillo, 21, a single mom and Democrat who says she’s so turned off by the ob-gyn nature of the ads invading the morning shows that she won’t be voting.

Menten isn’t your stereotypical country club Republican. She drives an older red compact festooned with libertarian bumper stickers. So it comes as no surprise that the women she knows aren’t suburban Stepford wives. Her next stop was a candidate meet-and-greet night for Jane Barnes, a former JeffCo school board chair who’s running for state representative on the Republican ticket.

Colorado leads the nation in electing women to the statehouse, with 41%. But the state has never seen a woman serve as governor or U.S. senator.

Menten, Barnes and three of her supporters huddled around a table and talked long after the event at the restaurant ended. Barnes was the only Republican; the others were defecting Democrats who don’t always toe the party line. They’d recruited a newly registered voter with no party affiliation.

All in their 50s and 60s, they called themselves “the Saturday night bridge club” because the restaurant stood in the shadow of what locals call the Sixth Avenue Freeway.

Their “bridge” was an overpass.

Among them, they have five kids, all grown. Two of the women are newly retired and have been counting pennies for too long. They expected to enjoy the fruits of a lifetime of hard work by now. But things keep getting harder. This isn’t what they signed up for.

Lois Florkey, who runs a pest control company with her husband, and Susan McConnell, a retired middle school secretary, voted for Barack Obama and Mark Udall the first time around. They say they’ve been disappointed.

McConnell was the first to defect and cross the party line as the recession kicked everyone in the teeth. She voted for Mitt Romney in 2012. Now she’s bringing her friends with her to Gardner.

“I want grandkids. I want security. I don’t want to worry about paying the bills,” she said. She remembers being inspired by Gloria Steinem and the feminists of the 1970s and counts herself among them. But, she says, Udall is “pandering on the choice issue, trying to scare women. I don’t scare anymore. I’m beyond that.”

Florkey also considers herself a feminist, but that is no longer her primary issue.

“I am a pro-choice woman,” she said. “Perhaps at a point in my life, that was a No. 1 issue for me. But in the last 20 years it has become more and more about the economy and education.”

Abortion: The new civil rights issue?

A few days later, I came across another gathering of JeffCo women, this time on the back porch of state Rep. Brittany Pettersen. At 32, she is the youngest woman in Colorado’s statehouse. She worked her way up, practically raising herself with help from her teachers and grandmother. She put herself though college by working as a cocktail waitress.

Her first campaign cost close to $1 million, but she beat a popular male candidate. She’s seeking a second term in a swing-prone district heavy with older voters.

The group of loyal Dems assembled on her patio ranged in age from 30 to 70. All favored a woman’s right to choose whether to have an abortion.

Christine Laursen, a 51-year-old teacher with a master’s degree, is single but feels like she works nonstop just to pay the bills. She’s always looking to pick up freelance projects to earn a little extra cash. Statewide statistics might help explain why she always feels like she’s about to slip underwater: Women make 20% less than men doing the same work.

Women make up half of Colorado’s work force, but a third of them would qualify as working poor.

Seated next to her was Cindy Lay, 66, a hospital emergency room trainer who represents another of Colorado’s grim statistics: One in four women over 18 has been raped.

When she was 36, Lay says, several men abducted her, kept her in a closet for days and repeatedly raped her at knifepoint. She never saw their faces, and police never brought charges. But afterward, she became a fierce advocate for Planned Parenthood and other groups fighting for abortion rights.

“It’s the next civil rights issue in this country — women getting and continuing our rights and not having them be jeopardized every time somebody wants to make a political point,” she declared, before leaving to make more cold calls to voters.

And then there was Kathy Tolman, 70, a retired nurse who worked two jobs to raise four kids on her own after her husband died. The statistics say she supported those kids on 63% of what she would have earned if she were a single dad.

Not surprisingly, her political concerns focused on survival — economically, environmentally and geo-politically. She is horrified by what she views as the racism that dogged President Obama and wonders whether the country is ready for a woman at the helm. “Hillary, what would she be up against? Would it be insurmountable?”

She is disgusted by the Senate commercials and the focus on abortion. “This is so ignorant, it just drives me crazy,” she says. “It’s none of their business. That should be between a woman and her doctor.”

A different kind of Democrat

Where were the Republican women who opposed abortion?

The search took me to a leafy section of Denver and the very calm, likable 30-year-old Meghan Marsden. We met for conversation and cucumber bubbly water at the uber-cool Denver Bicycle Café.

Originally from Minnesota, Marsden hails from a long line of Democrats going back to FDR and JFK. “I think that is a different Democrat than it is today,” she says, opening my eyes to a millennial reality. Where are today’s inspirational figures?

Hailing as I reluctantly do from the South, where highway billboards feature cute babies and aborted fetuses, I relaxed immediately in Marsden’s calming presence. Yes, she is a Christian and her faith is a big part of her life. That was no secret, given the tiny gold chain that circled her neck with the word “blessed” in a graceful gold script.

She is a Republican, believes life begins at conception, and opposes abortion.

But Marsden says she came to her position after lots of thought. It’s personal, not dogmatic. It’s also not her only issue, although she’s firmly in Gardner’s camp. She also likes what he has to say about small businesses.

The first member of her family to graduate college, Marsden still believes in the up-by-your-bootstraps dream. It is her family’s story.

“My parents worked up from nothing to be upper middle class people, and that’s why I am who I am,” she says. “I believe in the American dream, small business, if you keep your head down and work hard, it will happen.

“I think it’s still possible, but it’s harder than it has ever been. It’s not the 1980s.”

Ask Marsden about feminism, and it’s not the 1970s, either. Like many women her age, she thinks the word is outdated and carries too much baggage.

“When I think of the word ‘feminist,’ I think of the ’70s. I think of textbook history,” she says. “I think being a strong woman is more descriptive than being a feminist. I think there are strong negative connotations to being a feminist, still, that it was this bra-burning movement that happened before my time. I don’t think there’s a modern equivalent for what that word is meant to mean. I don’t think that word exists yet.”

She also thinks women are unnecessarily competitive.

“There is no old girls’ network,” she says. “I think a lot of it is based on fear, fear that there is only one spot for a woman. I’m competing against that one woman, instead of saying, ‘That’s awesome you got there; teach me how you got there.’

“It’s still a man’s game, you just can’t say it. I think it might even be harder today.”

Turning blue

Kelly Maher, the 31-year-old political consultant, moves easily along the corridors of male power and considers herself a feminist, although she doesn’t dwell on it.

“I don’t wake up every morning and think, ‘I am woman, hear me roar,'” she says. “I believe I’m equal to a man and as good as a man at doing the same things. And I’m disappointed that the term feminist has been taken over by people who want to inherently weaken my gender.”

Sister, say what?

It’s Maher’s opinion that the Udall campaign’s focus on women’s issues is actually condescending to women. She thinks it’s pandering, a page ripped from a two-year-old campaign playbook.

Clearly, I needed to learn more about the millennial mindset. It was just the two of us, liberal boomer and conservative millennial, sharing a bottomless pitcher of iced tea on the terrace of a members-only club that used to cater to Denver’s old boys’ network. The sun was shining and golden leaves were falling from the trees. It was the perfect afternoon for a primer on Millennial She-Politics.

Once upon a time, not so long ago, Maher explained, Colorado was as red as a state could be. Then came the backlash after the two terms of the second President Bush; by 2010 both U.S. Senate seats, the governor’s office and five of the seven representatives in Congress were Dems.

Almost overnight, Colorado wasn’t even purple; it was blue.

Women’s issues played a huge role in the 2010 Senate race, with Republican Ken Buck, a Princeton grad and former prosecutor and abortion opponent, portrayed as “too extreme for Colorado.” Dem Michael Bennet won big with women and Team Blue got a page for its playbook.

Udall has always received support from women’s and abortion rights groups. When Gardner, who had backed “personhood” bills in the past, tried to distance himself from the issue, Udall’s campaign zeroed in with laser-like focus on women’s issues and hasn’t let up. Maher believes that strategy may ultimately backfire.

Indeed, The Denver Post endorsed Gardner and slammed Udall over an “obnoxious one-issue campaign” that the newspaper called ” an insult to those he seeks to convince.” The Post received dozens of letters from readers; liberal, women’s and abortion rights groups pressured the paper to reconsider, and other pundits poked fun.

“Everyone is just running on the uterus issues, if you will,” Maher says. “The Senate race is going to be a really good litmus test for whether or not that has jumped the shark. I believe it has, especially with millennial women.”

She explains a key millennial tenet: “Trying to carve out special rights and look for some kind of special consideration by virtue of your gender is inherently anti-feminist.”

She also explained why Meghan Marsden so surprised me. She was thoroughly modern Meghan. There was absolutely nothing backward about her.

“Millennial women are more pro-life than our parents,” Maher explained. “You can’t look at a girl who always had access to birth control, who grew up with a mother who was on the pill and say, ‘XYZ is going to come and take away your birth control.'”

Whoa! Boom. In the blink of an eye, the spin of a Senate race switched from abortion to the pill.

It’s no longer 1973. It’s, like, 1960.

As Yogi Berra once said: It’s déjà vu all over again.

6 comments

  • wjriedel

    Here is the truth about the so-called gender wage gap. And this information comes from the Obama government itself. As you will see, the Democrats are ALL lying about this. (A 2010 analysis of Census Bureau data showed that young, single women who’ve never had a child actually earned 8% more than their male counterparts in most U.S. cities.)
    The Gender Pay Gap Is a Myth
    By Steve Tobak
    Published May 03, 2013
    Every year around this time we’re treated to the same eyeball catching headlines about the stubborn persistence of the gender pay gap. The White House has an entire website decrying how “women are still paid less than men,” 77 cents on every dollar, according to the Census Bureau.
    Indeed, President Obama is putting his political clout behind the Paycheck Fairness Act, legislation intended to address the age-old income disparity between men and women that everyone assumes is a result of discrimination.
    There’s only one problem. It isn’t true.
    If you can get past all the populist media headlines, the politicians pandering for the female vote, and the big bucks behind all the lobbyists, feminist groups, and women’s councils and just look at the facts, you’ll learn that the wage gap is not the result of discrimination.
    There’s a mountain of data, research, and studies from sources like the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, the U.S. Census Bureau, even a 2011 White House report prepared by the U.S. Department of Commerce for the White House Council on Women and Girls, that all say the same thing.
    The gender pay gap is not a result of discrimination, coercion, or anything like that. To put it simply, it’s a matter of women’s choices.
    Many women sacrifice pay for all sorts of reasons including security, safety, flexibility, and fulfillment. Their priorities are vastly different than men’s. And when you account for that, when you compare apples to apples, when women actually make the same career choices as men, there is no gap. Men and women earn the same.
    Moreover, treating women as victims, which they are not, instead of empowering them, which we should, does nothing but hold them back. It does not serve their interests one bit. And the legislation will likely do more harm than good, as is usually the case when government overreaches and overreacts to satisfy special interests.
    To dispel this age-old myth once and for all, just take a quick look at the unbiased facts, objective data, and conclusions of the studies:
    An in-depth, 93-page U.S. Department of Labor study came to the “unambiguous conclusion that the differences in the compensation of men and women are the result of a multitude of factors and that the raw wage gap should not be used as the basis to justify corrective action. Indeed, there may be nothing to correct. The differences in raw wages may be almost entirely the result of the individual choices being made by both male and female workers.”
    Indeed, the primary reason for the wage disparity is that men choose higher-paying fields and occupations.
    According to the White House report, “In 2009, only 7 percent of female professionals were employed in the relatively high paying computer and engineering fields, compared with 38 percent of male professionals.” Professional women, on the other hand, were far more likely to choose careers in lower paying fields such as education and health care.
    Even within the same field or category, men are more likely than women to pursue areas of specialization with higher levels of stress. Within the medical field, for example, men are far more likely to become surgeons while women tend to choose lower stress and lower paying specialties like pediatrics and dentistry.
    Another major factor is that many women have different priorities than men do. They tend to value factors like job security, workplace safety, flexible hours, and work conditions much higher than they value compensation. For example, Department of Labor surveys show that men work an average of 9% more hours than women. Demanding jobs that command higher pay naturally require longer hours.
    Men are also far more likely to choose careers that involve physical labor, overnight and weekend shifts, dangerous conditions, as well as uncomfortable, isolated, outdoor, and undesirable locations. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the top 10 most dangerous jobs are all male-dominated. These occupations also pay more than less dangerous and taxing careers.
    All that notwithstanding, a 2010 analysis of Census Bureau data showed that young, single women who’ve never had a child actually earned 8% more than their male counterparts in most U.S. cities. The findings seem to be driven by an ongoing trend: more and more women – now more than men, in fact – are attending college and going on to relatively high-paying professional careers.
    Now, I can probably just walk away from the keyboard and call it a day, but I won’t, and here’s why. Even though the facts are clear, I’m not going to sit here and ignore the one ginormous difference between men and women that obviously affects our choices: the baby elephant in the room.
    I’m pretty sure that women still have all the babies and still do most of the child rearing and housework in America. Clearly, there are biological and societal factors that contribute to their personal career choices.
    Not only that, but having been an executive in corporate America, I know that, while gender discrimination is illegal and women have cracked the glass ceiling, for whatever reason, a lot of board rooms still resemble good old boys clubs.
    I’m not entirely sure who needs to do the work to change that – the women climbing the corporate ladder, the men and women in charge of hiring and promoting them, or both – but one thing’s for sure. That’s not a job for Congress – or President Obama.
    Steve Tobak is a Silicon Valley-based strategy consultant and former senior executive of the technology industry.

  • Tom Sanders

    ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW IS…if you want more corruption, taxes, regulations, division between the American people, lie after lie, crime, poverty, open boarders, a scandal every other day, no jobs, Ebola and ISIL up your butt…vote democrat.

  • carl swanson

    Ann O’Neill, you are as long winded as BO and you are like him in that you have a big hat and no cattle!

  • Teresa

    Udall’s campaign may have overplayed women’s reproductive rights but Gardner has been blatantly dishonest about his support of the personhood amendment. Gardner has yet to my knowledge retracted his support for the federal Life at Conception Act which he co-sponsored. This was and still is a personhood bill. He claims that he did not know his personhood bill would make forms of contraception illegal. How incompetent is it to co-sponsor a bill without understanding what is in it. If he truly supports making birth control available over the counter why wasn’t he talking about this when he was sponsoring his backdoor anti-abortion bill. Debate moderator Kyle Clark was spot on when he questioned Gardner’s honesty when Gardner denied that the federal Life at Conception Act which he co-sponsored was a personhood bill. Superb journalism. Media Matters has posted a clip of this must see debate video.

    In another even more troubling instance of slick manipulation Gardner parsed words to avoid taking responsibility for his Tea Party’s extremist tactics in threatening to shut down the government to undo Obamacare. Gardner said on tape “there was never a vote to shut down the government”( http://www.realcorygardner.com) Republicans did vote against a bill that would keep the government up and running. In terms of effect I would call that a shutdown the government vote. Apparently the Campus Election Engagement Project’s Nonpartisan Candidate Guide for the Colorado Senate Race agrees. Gardner is listed as having supported shutting down the federal government in order to defund Obamacare in 2013.

    Contrary to Gardner’s portrayal of Udall as a rubber stamp of the Obama administration, Udall has been majorly at odds with the Obama administration on national security and the CIA. In an article in the Huffington Post, Ali Watkins notes that civil liberties groups dread the prospect of a Senate without Mark Udall. Udall has been highly critical of NSA’s massive warrantless data collection on millions of Americans. Watkins notes that Udall is a member of the bipartisan “checks and balances caucus” which include Rand Paul, Mike Lee and Ron Wyden. Senator Mark Udall has been heralded by both the American Civil Liberties Union and Human Rights Watch as a champion of civil liberties and government transparency. Watkins quotes Laura Pitter, senior national security counsel at Human Rights Watch as describing Udall as one of the few politicians who will do what is right, even when it means confronting his own political leadership.” Even the Denver Post gave Udall credit for using his position on the Senate Intelligence Committee to crusade against spying activities that encroach on individual freedom and privacy.

    We are not sending Udall’s campaign strategists to the Senate. Hopefully we will send a man of character Mark Udall.

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