Ex-student calls teacher over alleged sex abuse, posts talk on YouTube

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A woman who says a female teacher from middle school sexually abused her for years decided to confront the teacher — and post video of the exchange on YouTube.

Within hours, the educator resigned from her job at another school in California. Police launched an investigation. And the former student, who once felt powerless, now says she feels vindicated knowing the ex-teacher is no longer working with children.

The former student, who calls herself “Jamie,” said the abuse started when she was 12 years old.

“I am 28 years old and have been waiting years to get up enough courage to report a teacher for sexually abusing me for years,” Jamie’s caption on her YouTube video states.

“When I finally got up enough courage to report her, I found out that the statute of limitations was up and she will never have to pay for the things that she did to me.”

So she decided to expose the teacher on the Internet.

“I decided I’m going to call her to get some answers from her,” Jamie said to a camera in her home.

After the woman identified as the teacher picked up the phone, Jamie asked, “So what happens when a student comes in and says that they’re having (a) sexual relationship with a teacher?”

“I would involve law enforcement,” the woman said.

“So how is that any different from what you did” years ago, Jamie said.

“It’s not,” the woman replied.

“Do you realize that you brainwashed me, and you manipulated me, and that what you did was wrong?” Jamie asked.

“Yes. And I regret it,” the woman responded.

“You should be so ashamed and so disgusted with yourself,” Jamie said, raising her voice.

“I am. I am,” the woman said.

Shortly after Jamie posted the video on YouTube, she sent the link to her former teacher. The educator resigned within hours, said Jamie’s attorney, David Ring.

The teacher has not responded to phone and e-mail requests for comment.

Police have launched an investigation into the case, but the statute of limitations may be an issue, Riverside police Lt. Guy Toussaint said. It all depends on what the investigation reveals and what crimes may have occurred.

The Alhambra Unified School District, where Jamie said the teacher most recently worked, has not responded to request for comment. But according KABC, the school district said it contacted Alhambra police immediately after discovering the YouTube link.

The Alhambra Police Department said it notified Riverside police because the reported abuse allegedly took place in Riverside.

“At this time in the investigation, there have been no identified crimes involving the suspect that have occurred in Alhambra,” APD said in a statement.

Why now?

Now that she’s a mother, Jamie said she wanted to make sure the teacher couldn’t work with children again.

“The reason why I wanted to do this was to expose her for what she really was and to protect other kids, because she shouldn’t be around anyone’s kids,” Jamie told reporters Monday. “It took a lot for me to come forward, but I kept thinking about my own kids, and how I wouldn’t want anything to happen to them.”

Jamie said the abuse took place ‘off and on” between the ages of 12 and 18. She said she didn’t come forward as a teenager because the teacher had brainwashed her.

“She told me that my family didn’t love me. She told me that nobody cared about me and that she was the only one that loved me and the only one that was there for me,” Jamie said. “She made me believe that she was my only friend, and that I could trust her.”

Jamie said she didn’t want a physical relationship — but that the teacher threatened her multiple times.

“She said that she would kill herself if I ever left. And I believed that,” Jamie said.

Now, more than a decade after middle school, Jamie said she feels greater control in her life.

“In the beginning, I thought there was nothing that I could do. But after the outcome, obviously, there is something I can do.”

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9 comments

  • Michelle

    I am so proud of you for posting this. To many people have been abused and have never reported it. I was one of them and blocked everything out until I was 15. To late to press charges.

    Thank you. You will make a difference for someone else.

  • Amanda Rhodes

    Proud of you for standing up for yourself, that is so messed up. I wish I remembered what happened to me. That is just awful and I hope you get some justice in all this.

  • rebeka

    This person should not be allowed to be around children ever!! Especially someone who admitted to doing this!

  • Diana

    you will most definitely make a difference and encourage others to speak. As a victim myself I know that it takes a lot of , courage and reliving while talking about it to do this. God bless you.

  • Kjabajel

    You are a remarkable, beautiful, and amazingly strong woman!! I do not know you but I am proud of what you have done! Not many others could have confronted their abuser, taped it and published it for others to see. I hope the many many others this has happened to with gain strength from you. I hope you come to realize she robbed you of your childhood, but your life isn’t ruined. You have an amazing spirit and have risen above the evil of this woman. Hold your head up and be proud. You have made an impact in the world today and taken a huge step in your own healing. :)

  • sequioa

    SWEETIE,SORRY U HAD TO GO THRU THIS,BUT U JUST HELPED MY DAUGHTER TO OPEN UP ABOUT HER MOLESTATION FROM MY MOM HUSBAND,IT MAY BE ALSO TO LATE FOR US TO DO ANYTHING IN LONG BEACH,CA.BUT AS SURE AS THERE IS A GOD IN HEAVEN THEY WILL HAVE TO ANSWER TO.MAY OUR GOD HAVE NOOOOOO MERCY ON THEIR SOULS.U N UR CHILDREN ARE IN MY PRAYERS.MAY GOD HEAL N STRENGTHEN U FROM THE CROWN OF UR HEAD TO THE SOLES OF UR FEET.U JUST DNT NO HOW MANY PEOPLE U JUST HELPED BY SPEAKING OUT NOOOO MATTER HOW LONG IT WAS GOD GAVE U THE COURAGE TO STAND N SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.I SALUTE YOU TO THE FULLEST.

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